The Loneliness of Sin and Suffering

Read 2 Corinthians 4:16-18.

Scripture gives us some clear examples of Biblical figures who suffered from loneliness. Through them, we can identify loneliness caused by sin, suffering, serving, self-pity, sorrow, and stubbornness. Whatever the source of our loneliness, however, there is one glorious solution.

You may have guessed that Cain’s loneliness was caused by his grievous sin. Cain didn’t only kill his brother Abel. Cain also killed Cain. He didn’t kill himself physically of course, but he did kill himself spiritually when he ended his poor brother’s life. Cain’s spiritual death was slow and painful—the result of his refusal to confess his sin, repent of it, and ask God for forgiveness. His rebellion against God led to long-lasting loneliness and alienation from the Lord. Even before this incident, Cain had begun to reject God—and his loneliness was a result of that sin.

Sin, if left unconfessed and unchecked, will only grow and metastasize. That is why repentance is so very important. Without it, a person remains trapped in their loneliness. In fact, Cain tried to make up for the loss of fellowship with God by building a city where he could bury the loneliness of his sin.

Job, on the other hand, experienced the loneliness of suffering because of his righteousness. Poor Job lost nearly everything—his family, wealth, and health. As a result, he also knew nearly incomprehensible isolation—an isolation fueled by the loss of hope. Job felt utterly abandoned—even to the point of imagining God had become his nemesis (see Job 19:11). When you begin to entertain the idea that God has abandoned you, fear will overtake you.

Thankfully, for God’s children, suffering never has the final word. Through Christ, we have the promise of eternal life in glory with Him. A day is coming when He will return and make all things new—a work that has even begun in the hearts of all His people. Job had this incredible hope as well. He clung to it and was able to profess, “I know that my redeemer lives, and that in the end he will stand on the earth. And after my skin has been destroyed, yet in my flesh I will see God; I myself will see him with my own eyes—I, and not another” (Job 19:25-27).

If you’re experiencing loneliness as a result of sin or significant suffering, know this: God is not far off. Today and every day, you can bring Him your burdens—your sin and your pain—and receive rest and comfort in the fellowship of your sovereign Savior.

Prayer: Father, thank You that You never abandon me. You are near to the broken-hearted. In seasons of loneliness because of suffering, may I cling to Your Word. Grant me discernment for seasons when I am in rebellion so that I might confess and repent and know Your peace and love. I pray in the name of Jesus. Amen.